May 18, 2022

What’s Possible For Women When Conscious Men Witness

I spoke this to Paul, I spoke this to him from a place of masculinity inside of me that is truly baffled by what I see in many men. It was the old world looking at the present, utterly thrown.

To say that what I shared with Paul didn’t affect him would be a lie, but how he handled it made me marvel at the man he is. Paul could have taken what I shared as a personal attack. He could have had a lot of reactions. I saw the pain in his face as the truth poured from my …

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Navigating Conflict Through Feel

Through OM, we learn to get out of our heads, and into our bodies. We let go of the idea that we can know what’s ahead. We embrace the reality that we are walking step-by-step into an unknowable future. Instead of “figuring things out,” we navigate the world by sensation. Instead of logic, we use feel. We learn to get down and dirty into the mud of direct experience.…

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Men want women they respect

The complicatedness of relatedness comes from what’s underneath the surface. The emotional landscape. For most it is a barren wasteland of memory, fears, pain, trauma, and things left unexamined, unhealed. When you are falling for someone’s eyes, the way their mouth moves when they talk, and all the things that create your perfect little fantasy world, and not paying attention to who this person is down under… it is no wonder most women are stupified when they are crying to me, he’s not who I thought he was.…

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Jealousy In Relationships

One of the quickest ways to get dumped is through insecurity and jealousy in relationships. Men and women both experience this problem since it part of human nature, however we must do our best to overcome it.

Jealousy and insecurity will ruin a relationship very quickly and are probably the most common of relationship problems. When a person is jealous or insecure they are often overbearing to their partner. Not only does it get really annoying to have someone always checking up on you or inquiring to what you are doing, but if you are jealous or insecure it shows …

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Controlling Relationships

Have you ever been manipulated or taken advantage of in a relationship? Controlling relationships tend to happen gradually and most men ignore the subtle signs of a bad relationship. Next thing you know, a night out with the guys seems unquestionable and every decision you make has to be approved by your girlfriend. It isn’t long before the man has suffered socially and emotionally.…

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How to Know If You Will Marry Your Boyfriend

It is not necessary that the first relationship that you have with your boyfriend has to and will culminate into marriage. You have to be wary of the boy you choose for your marriage as you should not end up in a marriage that does not last long. The person you marry has to be someone who will be there for you, both at times of happiness and problems.…

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What You Should Know About Intriguing a Guy

You know what makes women truly beautiful, the aura of mystery that surrounds her. So if you too want to make the guy dream about you day and night and want to be the object of his fantasies then here are some steps that will surely provide answer to the query “how to intrigue a guy”:…

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Where to seek relationship advice

We all need a bit of advice sometimes, in the old days you had to approach your parents or someone you respected for their wisdom, or their ability to grasp your particular problem, those days have been firmly pushed aside by the internet. That’s not to say you can’t do any of that, in fact I would encourage you to embrace the old ways, but with so much information at your fingertips without having to divulge any possibly embarassing secrets, then it is always tempting.…

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Is your relationship just good or is it great?

Take the time to stop and think about your relationship. If it’s more than 6 months old think about what it was like when it first started, full of excitement, laughter, fun and flirting, now think of how it is today. Lots of people make the mistake of becoming just two people in a routine, or worse, two people who fight all the time. If either is the case then maybe you should think of how to improve your relationship.…

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Have Great Sex Tonight

You know what you’re doing when it comes to making love and having sex, and you even know the difference between the two. You don’t have much trouble satisfying your partner, and you don’t doubt that he wants you. But, you can always use a little more excitement in your love life. And besides, it’s your turn to surprise your man with something special.…

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