It seems that when it comes to men chasing women, we guys are separated into two camps: the nice guys… and the bad boys. This is a dreadfully intense way of looking at things, making men think that they have to make some huge verdict with stern repercussions, like choosing between the Jedi and Dark Side, good and evil, black and white. But what about the middle ground? If you’re a nice guy who puts women on a pedestal and lets them get away with anything, you definitely can’t let them keep doing this. But if you’re a bad guy who treats women like yesterday’s trash, you’re not going to do much better also. So there’s got to be some negotiation. Here are my seven confirmed techniques for getting women by taking on your “inner bad boy”–while still allowing yourself to be you.
1. Surprise them.
If there’s one thing girl’s love on Adultfrienedfinder, it’s a surprise. There’s nothing greater than keeping them on their toes. Do this by going against common norms; for instance, giving her the “black power fist” when she’s expecting a handshake. Or walk up to her and dare her to a game of thumb wars. As you’re having a great discussion, say you’ve got to run off. This all goes a long ways towards making her heart quiver, and making YOU more attractive–without being a total douche bag.
2. Do the unexpected.
Unfortunately, nice guys constantly do what they’re SUPPOSED to do. They say hello, ask genuinely how a girl is, and gawk in awe as she says she’s a model. BORING. Nah, you’ve got to free your inner bad boy by doing the things you’re NOT supposed to do. Show her you’re cool, show her you’re bold: flirt shamelessly, grin at a sexual statement, tease unabashedly, talk about using thrusting vibrators. You don’t have to be a total jerk to do these things, just a guy who’s confident that he’ll get away with things that aren’t “the norm”. Girls adore to not know what to expect, so do the unexpected!
3. Be a rebel.
I’m not saying to break the law, but don’t always go by the regulations. Show her you’re fun, break rules here and there. So what if there are people watching! Give her a big kiss in the center of the street. So what if boardwalk is closed? Take her for a dreamy midnight wander Who cares if the speed limit is 50? Drive her at 75 and watch her shout in enjoyment. You don’t have to be a complete jerk to show a girl some fun.
4. Get physical.
If you’re not already at a sports club or into martial arts, now is the time. Girls worship a guy who can kick butt. It’s the element of the bad boy that makes them feel secure and protected. So get to work on your body–nothing says enticing like a man in shape who can kick some butt.
5. Make her feel safe.
Show her your confidence, your self-assuredness by taking her hand, walking on the side of the walkway closest to the road, and never backing down from any position. That’s not a permit to get into fights, just to make her feel protected.
This is a approach you can’t go wrong with. Bad boys never let a girl get away with undesirable behavior. If she’s talking like she’s the greatest person ever, they’ll joke, “Man, if this lady’s ego gets any larger we’re all going to have to evacuate!” If she says she’s a model, say a bit to the effect of, “Oh yeah? Is that it?” And show her your worth by saying, “Listen, I’m afraid I’m not going to be able to wait around. Your mouth is destroying my ear drums.” In other words, don’t be scared to gag around and put her in her place!
7. Develop attitude.
I just can’t stress enough how critical having a charming, confident attitude is. You don’t care what others say. You don’t care what others believe. No matter how a woman reacts, it just blows right over you. That’s because you’re always in power. No woman—whether gorgeous, well-liked, or loaded—has power over you. You don’t need anyone, you’re not reliant on anyone, and you don’t have to stick to anyone. If she thinks she’s too good for you, you get right up and shift to the next girl, because you’re a catch and you know it!
Remember, you don’t have to be a absolute bad guy to get the girls. Just clinch the winning characteristics of bad boys, and you’ll be facing up women left and right!