Are you desperate to get your ex to return your messages, but nothing you try ever seems to get him to dial your number? Are there secret magic words you can use to get your ex to call you back?
It may sound hard to believe, but in fact there really is a seemingly magic formula that almost works as well as casting a spell to make your ex want to return your message.
Want to hear all about it?
The simple plan for getting your ex to get back to you is set out in a little book called “The Magic of Making Up”, which is a must-have resource if you are trying desperately to put your relationship back together after he used adultfrienedfinder app ios, even with a simple first step like getting him to return your messages.
So how many times a day do you ask yourself, “How do I get my ex to return my message?” What IS the answer to this simple question?
CAUTION!! DON’T PROCEED WITHOUT THE COMPLETE PLAN!
The Magic of Making Up lays out a complete strategy for getting your ex to get back to you. This short article can only cover a basic outline of the plan, so you must read the book first in order to make sure you do nothing to cause further damage to your relationship. If you don’t follow the right steps, the worst thing that could happen might be that he DOES return your call and catch you unprepared for what to do next.
Before we go into what you should say in a message to your ex, let’s first cover what you should NEVER say.
First, never plead. Don’t call to leave a message that sounds like, “Come on, Drake, I’ve been calling and calling and you won’t call me back! Where are you? Please call. I’m waiting.”
Second, never claim there is an emergency that isn’t real, like “Dave, this is urgent, you have to get back to me as soon as you get this message!”
We don’t have to spell out what is wrong with those approaches, do we?
USE CURIOSITY AND SELF INTEREST TO YOUR ADVANTAGE
Two of the most powerful forces in your ex’s mind are CURIOSITY and SELF INTEREST. Here is the secret: when you combine the two, you have a recipe that will work ‘magic’ on your ex.
So, let’s look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME to get your ex to get back to you.
In a casual, sincere and friendly tone, say:
“Hi, Jim. It’s me. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person.”
That uses BOTH curiosity and self interest. Jim will NOT be able to resist calling back to find out, “What did I do?” “What does she appreciate?” he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.
But, before you call you need to do the “Set Up”…which is figuring out what he did that you appreciate. It can be any small thing…but it needs to be plausible and sound real.
But, more importantly…
SECOND CAUTION!! DON’T PROCEED WITHOUT THE COMPLETE STRATEGY!
You must have an underlying strategy like the one laid out in the Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call.
If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and your former lover returns your message you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly. What you do before, during and after you get him to respond is MORE important than simply getting him to dial.
Click this link to learn the plan in “The Magic of Making Up.” You can download the book instantly and get started formulating your strategy right now. Get him to get back with you. Get your love back.